100 Very Best Questions To Ask a Girl over Text

100 Very Best Questions To Ask a Girl over Text

Starting the conversation off right is often the toughest struggle when texting the girl you fancy. The following are some texting conversation starters that should steer you in the right direction.

The key to starting a lasting conversation is to keep your questions open-ended. Make her reply with more than yes or no.

These texts will pique her interest and set you up for engaging conversation.


20 Conversation Starters To Ask A Girl Over Text

Conversation Starters with a Girl over Text

  1. What are your plans for this weekend?
  2. What was the highlight of your day?
  3. What’s your schedule like today?
  4. Did you watch the last episode of (relevant TV show)?
  5. What did you eat today?
  6. What is something funny that happened to you today? [1]
  7. Are you going to (party, bar, etc.) this weekend?
  8. Working on anything exciting?
  9. What was the highlight of your week?
  10. Having fun?
  11. Have you been to (restaurant, store, etc.) yet?
  12. What’s your new year’s resolution?
  13. Are you going home for the holidays?
  14. What’s your ideal Sunday?
  15. Where do you want to be right now?
  16. Would you rather go out for sushi or for pizza?
  17. When can I see you again?
  18. Looking for an adventure?
  19. When are you free?
  20. What three things would you bring on a desert island?


20 Funny Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

  1. What did you ask santa for last christmas?
  2. What’s your greatest fashion disaster? [2]
  3. Are you tired from running through my dreams last night?
  4. You’ve heard of Netflix and chill, but have you heard of Disney plus and Thrust.
  5. I think your hotness might be the cause of global warming.
  6. You’re making my face hurt from smiling all the time.
  7. Stop sending mixed signals and send memes instead.
  8. Would you rather be abducted by aliens or go out with me?
  9. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and I together.
  10. God was feeling himself when he made you.
  11. I got you some flowers! (send flower emojis)
  12. You’re like a tornado… you blow me away.
  13. I’m using my last 3% to text you right now
  14. So.. I have this big problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.
  15. Do your parents like to bake? Because they made a cutie pie.
  16. How do you like your eggs? Scrambled or fertilized?
  17. I hope you see my willingness to text first as attractive.
  18. Here I am, the guy of your dreams.
  19. You’re my favorite distraction.
  20. Fuck, Marry, Kill with Guy Fieri, Peter Dinklage, and Danny Devito. What are your choices?

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20 Get to Know Her Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

Conversation Starters with a Girl over Text

  1. Where’s your hometown?
  2. Do you have siblings?
  3. Where are the places you want to live/ see?
  4. Where’s the coolest place you’ve been?
  5. A genie gives you a wish. What do you wish for?
  6. Do you prefer a night out or a night in?
  7. What were you into as a kid?
  8. What’s on your bucket list?
  9. What’s your favorite movie?
  10. What was your favorite movie as a kid?
  11. What’s your favorite song?
  12. Who are your favorite artists?
  13. What’s your favorite TV show?
  14. What do you think about tattoos? [3]
  15. What are you obsessed with?
  16. Do you sing outside of the shower?
  17. What’s your go-to dirty joke?
  18. If you were only allowed to eat one thing for the rest of your life what would that be?
  19. What is something you did once and will never do again?
  20. What are your favorite things to do in your free time?


20 Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

  1. What would you do if I was with you right now?
  2. I don’t remember the last time we spoke, let’s change that.
  3. Did you smile when I texted you just now?
  4. What are you wearing right now?
  5. I wish I woke up to your smile this morning.
  6. I’m just trying to get to the part when we’re eating pizza in your bed in our underwear.
  7. What are you doing tonight? Let’s get brunch in the morning
  8. Has anyone told you that you look stunning today?
  9. Wish I could kiss you right now.
  10. Include me in your “to-do” list today.
  11. It’s chilly out… come warm me up
  12. What would you ask if you knew the answer was “yes.”
  13. Missing me?
  14. You were in my dreams last night; I didn’t want to wake up.
  15. Out of all of your sexy curves, your smile is my favorite.
  16. I’m jealous of your bedsheets.
  17. Can I have you for my midnight snack?
  18. Don’t work too hard today. I need you to have energy later.
  19. Facetime me. I need your smile to brighten my day.
  20. Just say the word, and I’m by your side.

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20 Personal / Deep Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

Conversation Starters with a Girl over Text

  1. What’s your relationship like with your mom?
  2. What’s your relationship like with your dad?
  3. What excites you most?
  4. What’s a good day for you?
  5. What is your most embarrassing moment?
  6. Who brings you the most joy in your life?
  7. Where would you want to start your family?
  8. What book changed your life?
  9. Who are the biggest influences on who you are?
  10. What’s your defining moment?
  11. What keeps you up at night?
  12. When was your first time?
  13. What’s the thing you most want to tell me?
  14. Send me your favorite selfie on your phone.
  15. What songs do you want me to listen to?
  16. What’s your most irrational fear? [4]
  17. What would make your day, right now?
  18. What are your biggest turn-ons?
  19. What are your biggest turn-offs?
  20. What do you notice in a guy first?


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