12 Questions To Ask your Girlfriend

The famous (and now dead) Coco Chanel once said, “A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.”

And who are we to argue with Miss Chanel? If you’re going to score a “fabulous” girl you’ll need to stand out. Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered.

Keep reading. 👇

We know how difficult it is out there. The dating scene is INTENSE and if you want the fastest path to victory you’ll need to know how to intrigue the mind of a woman.

So, how do you set yourself apart from the pack?


Ask better questions!

The following are our top 12 questions you NEED to ask that girl you’re crushing on. Don’t waste even a second of your precious life on a girl who isn’t fabulous.

Fair warning, number 12 might surprise you but don’t worry, I’ll explain why it’s the MOST important question to ask—once we get there. Until then, sit back, kick up your feet, and enjoy the ride!


Do you believe that the guy should pay for dates?

This question is important because it tells you what she expects! Can you imagine arguing about the bill once it arrives? (That would be no Bueno.)


If I asked your brother (or sister) what was the most embarrassing thing to happen to you, what would they say?

This question is unique. It’s not something your girl has likely been asked before. Plus, you’ll get some pretty hilarious stories!

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Have you ever told someone else’s secret?

This is a great question because it makes her laugh! Of course, she’s told secrets! Ask a few good follow-up questions and maybe she’ll tell you the secret. 🤫


If you could invent any ice-cream flavor what would it be?

We find that conversations, in general, but especially with girls, tend to fall into a predictable pattern. We like to throw this one in just to mix things up! And who knows, maybe she’s got some sweet combo you haven’t thought of.


Have you ever seen a ghost?

This is a fun question. You never know where this answer will take you! We’ve been told some pretty spooky stories!


What’s your favorite flower?

This question is important if you want to separate yourself from the masses and snag that fabulous girl. Being spontaneous and buying gifts is all part of being a good boyfriend. We get it. This generation of modern girls is tough and many claims that they don’t want flowers, and that’s fine. But, whatever you don’t forget this truth. Despite what they say, every girl (yes, every girl) secretly hopes to be surprised with flowers! So, ask the question and make sure you buy the RIGHT damn flowers! (Money well spent, if you know what we mean 😬)

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If you could relive any memory which would it be?

This is a potentially dangerous question (Even so we think it’s worth asking). It’s dangerous because it’s possible that her most tightly held memory is of a parent, sibling, or friend who has died. Even so, questions like this work to bring you closer to her as she reveals incredibly personal memories.


What’s the funniest lie you ever told?

We love this question because it’s a sure-fire way to break the ice and to get you both laughing.


Would you rather spend the day with Hermione Granger (Harry Potter) or Sabrina (The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina)?

Don’t be fooled. This question is significant! If you must explain who these two famous witches are then run, she ain’t worth your time.


Have you ever had a crush on a cartoon character?

The obvious answer here is a resounding YES! (And if it’s an anime character that’s even better, amirite?)

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Would you rather go for the rest of your life without meat or sex?

Depending on how far along your relationship is this might make her blush. (That’s okay!) Make her answer and if she chooses a lifetime of meat…well, it might be time to move on.


What kind of relationship do you have with your dad?

This might seem like a dumb question, after all why should you care? Well, the research is in and the numbers don’t lie. Science has proven that girls who have good relationships with their dads make better sex partners. Our advice? Look for girls without daddy issues.

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That’s it! That’s our Top 12. Now get out there, break the ice and meet some fabulous girls!

But—don’t go just yet. We got some last-minute advice to share with you.

Without further ado, here’s your last golden nugget of wisdom: never forget who you are. No matter how fabulous she might be, no girl is worth trading your soul for.

As Bernard Baruch perfectly summarised, “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”

Life’s an adventure, live it loud!