21 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

21 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

The famous (and now dead) Coco Chanel once said, “A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.”

And who are we to argue with Miss Chanel? If you’re going to score a “fabulous” girl you’ll need to stand out. Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered.

Keep reading. 👇

We know how difficult it is out there. The dating scene is INTENSE and if you want the fastest path to victory you’ll need to know how to intrigue the mind of a woman.

So, how do you set yourself apart from the pack?


Ask better questions!

The following are our top 22 questions you NEED to ask that girl you’re crushing on. Don’t waste even a second of your precious life on a girl who isn’t fabulous.

Fair warning, number 12 might surprise you but don’t worry, I’ll explain why it’s the MOST important question to ask—once we get there. Until then, sit back, kick up your feet, and enjoy the ride!


Do you believe that the guy should pay for dates?

This question is important because it tells you what she expects! Can you imagine arguing about the bill once it arrives? (That would be no Bueno.)


If I asked your brother (or sister) what was the most embarrassing thing to happen to you, what would they say?

This question is unique. It’s not something your girl has likely been asked before. Plus, you’ll get some pretty hilarious stories!

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Have you ever told someone else’s secret?

This is a great question because it makes her laugh! Of course, she’s told secrets! Ask a few good follow-up questions and maybe she’ll tell you the secret. 🤫


If you could invent any ice-cream flavor what would it be?

We find that conversations, in general, but especially with girls, tend to fall into a predictable pattern. We like to throw this one in just to mix things up! And who knows, maybe she’s got some sweet combo you haven’t thought of.


Have you ever seen a ghost?

This is a fun question. You never know where this answer will take you! We’ve been told some pretty spooky stories!


What’s your favorite flower?

This question is important if you want to separate yourself from the masses and snag that fabulous girl. Being spontaneous and buying gifts is all part of being a good boyfriend. We get it. This generation of modern girls is tough and many claims that they don’t want flowers, and that’s fine. But, whatever you don’t forget this truth. Despite what they say, every girl (yes, every girl) secretly hopes to be surprised with flowers! So, ask the question and make sure you buy the RIGHT damn flowers! (Money well spent, if you know what we mean 😬)

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If you could relive any memory which would it be?

This is a potentially dangerous question (Even so we think it’s worth asking). It’s dangerous because it’s possible that her most tightly held memory is of a parent, sibling, or friend who has died. Even so, questions like this work to bring you closer to her as she reveals incredibly personal memories.


What’s the funniest lie you ever told?

We love this question because it’s a sure-fire way to break the ice and to get you both laughing.


Would you rather spend the day with Hermione Granger (Harry Potter) or Sabrina (The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina)?

Don’t be fooled. This question is significant! If you must explain who these two famous witches are then run, she ain’t worth your time.


Have you ever had a crush on a cartoon character?

The obvious answer here is a resounding YES! (And if it’s an anime character that’s even better, amirite?)

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Would you rather go for the rest of your life without meat or sex?

Depending on how far along your relationship is this might make her blush. (That’s okay!) Make her answer and if she chooses a lifetime of meat…well, it might be time to move on.


What kind of relationship do you have with your dad?

This might seem like a dumb question, after all, why should you care? Well, the research is in and the numbers don’t lie. Science has proven that girls who have good relationships with their dads make better sex partners. Our advice? Look for girls without daddy issues.

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What are you committed to?

Commitment is very important to maintain passion, conflict resolution and overall success in long-term relationships. Whether she is more oriented to material and superficial things. Or, she is looking forward to a commitment to her career and family.


How do you experience love in a relationship?

The overall ability to feel love is very important when it comes to nurturing and maintaining relationships. Compatible people also have a tendency to express love in a similar manner. How do you feel next to her, does she has the experience and maturity of the relationship to develop together with you, will show that you have the same thoughts when it comes to love.


What turns you on?

Sexual compatibility is often neglected, but it is very important to a good relationship. The excitement in different circumstances can show her sexual expectations.

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The happiest moments in your life? The most depressing moments?

You cannot observe these questions as a measure of emotional extremes of your partner. Pay attention to her happy and depressing memories, to certain factors that are triggers for her emotions. What factors speak to you about how she generally responds to the experience?


What is in your opinion the ideal relationship?

Her ideal relationship does not have to be something she is looking at the moment, but it is an indication of her expectations for the relationship. If she still dreaming of a prince on a white horse, it is clear that she is not a damsel in distress. Her response will tell you what kind of relationship she is thinking of and/or experience.


What is your opinion about marriage?

It would be good to have a positive attitude about marriage, even if not specifically interested in the same. Any negative attitude on the issue of commitment is a sign that she is not ready for a relationship. It is also important to be sure that she doesn’t seek to settle down just because she found a few grey hairs.


Describe something you want to achieve this year.

The relationship requires a lot of energy. Extremely busy people and those without a schedule may not be able to invest in a serious relationship. Be on guard if, for example, you want to be serious with a woman, who needs a secretary to cram you into her schedule.


Ask her when she thinks she will settle down.

Any reaction that includes the avoidance response indicates that she is not ready. A woman who focuses her thoughts on the relationship will confidently and quickly answer this question. She will also mention the standards that are expected of the partners and relationships.


Asks her to describe her relationship with her family and friends.

Does she still go out with his friends from high school, with whom she drinks until morning, or she narrowed the number of friends and know when and why she comes out? Is she in good relations with her family? Her answers will help you meet her better.

There are no right or wrong answers. In any case, the search for the girl who wants the same thing you do is the best way to avoid a potentially bad and stressful relationship.


In which way a man can immediately win you?

Ask her what the man had to do so that she immediately be his and if you are able to do it, do it now.

You can always throw in your conversation a cute joke to which she would laugh. Even if she had heard it a hundred times before or it is a real cliché, she will certainly laugh. It may seem silly to you, or you may think that this is really embarrassing, but believe me, when she comes home after the meeting, she will certainly remember it and laugh again.

So, just be brave with witty quips such as “Does it hurt when you fell from heaven?”, “Can I borrow the phone, my mother told me to call her as soon as you fall in love?” “I have to call the police, is not by the law to look so good. “ You will know the results as soon as tomorrow.

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That’s it! That’s our Top 22. Now get out there, break the ice and meet some fabulous girls!

But—don’t go just yet. We got some last-minute advice to share with you.

Without further ado, here’s your last golden nugget of wisdom: never forget who you are. No matter how fabulous she might be, no girl is worth trading your soul for.

As Bernard Baruch perfectly summarised, “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”

Life’s an adventure, live it loud!