It’s the question every girl asks herself: does he like me or not? Unless you have psychic powers, it’s impossible to know! Trying to tell if a guy has feelings for you can be so hard. Is he flirting or just being nice? How can you tell?
Don’t worry, we’ve got your back. We know what boys like, and we know what boys do when they like a girl. We’ve got a list of forty signs guys give off when they are crushing hard. We may not have a crystal ball with all the answers, but these signs can help you figure out if he likes you or not.
40 Ways to Tell If A Guy Likes You
1. He makes an effort to touch you. Even if it’s just a brush on the arm, physical contact is a way guys say “I like you.”
2. He always makes an effort to talk to you.
3. Early on in conversation, he asks if you have a boyfriend. He wouldn’t be asking if he didn’t want to know.
4. He remembers details about you and asks follow up questions.
5. You notice he suddenly knows things about your interests when he seemed clueless before. He might have done some research so he’d have more to talk about with you.
6. He remembers the names of your friends, family members, and even pets.
7. He wants you to meet his friends.
8. He’s following all your social media profiles, not just your IG.
9. You get “Why are you up?” DMs from him if you’re on Facebook late at night.
10. He asks you to hang out.
11. You seem to run into a lot. It’s probably not a coincidence!
12. He tells you lots of jokes, no matter how lame they are.
13. He randomly sends you memes.
14. You notice he dresses well when you hang out.
15. He wants to buy things for you. Even if it’s something small like a snack, it’s a way guys show off they can provide.
16. He gets a bit “off” when you mention other guys.
17. He tried to show off with physical challenges around you. If you notice he’s suddenly trying to do parkour or make trick shots, it could be to impress you.
18. He doesn’t make fun of your girly interests.
19. He tries to explain things to you. It may come off the wrong way, but guys often try to show off how much they know by explaining things.
20. He likes your posts on social media.
21. You notice he has started wearing cologne. If he didn’t before, that could be a big sign he’s trying to impress someone.
22. He likes pictures from years ago on your IG.
23. He watches all your Facebook/IG stories.
24. He agrees to make TikToks with you.
25. Anytime you have a problem, he tries to fix it. Guys always want to be the hero for a girl they like, no matter how small the problem is.
26. If he tells a joke in a group conversation, he always looks to see if you laugh.
27. He makes eye contact with you.
28. He’s always asking about what you’re doing in your free time. He’s probably working up the courage to ask you out.
29. If you ask him his time of birth to look up his astrological chart, he calls his mom and finds out.
30. He compliments you.
31. He chooses a profile picture that has you in it.
32. He tries to show off his artistic side to you.
33. He talks about his future plans when you’re around, he wants you to know he is a stable guy.
34. He asks your friends about you.
35. He doesn’t make fun of your favorite boy band.
36. He notices when you get a haircut.
37. He tries to teach you things, especially if teaching you involves touching.
38. He often texts you first, and replies quickly when you text him.
39. When you’re in a group conversation, he is always facing you.
40. He asks you on a date.