50 Wedding Vows for Him That Will Melt His Heart

When you’re standing in front of the person you love more than anything—your heart full, your hands shaking a little—it’s the vows that carry your love into words. Vows are more than a tradition; they’re a reflection of everything you’ve shared, everything you dream of, and everything you promise to become together.

If you’re searching for the right way to express your love and commitment to him, these 50 wedding vows are here to guide and inspire you. Each one is filled with honesty, devotion, and the kind of deep, quiet love that lasts a lifetime. Whether you use them as they are or mix them into your own, may these vows help you say what your heart already knows: that you’ve found your forever.

Wedding Vows for Him: A Love Letter From the Soul

From the moment I met you, my world found its rhythm. You are my compass, my calm, and my storm. I vow to walk beside you, hand in hand, through every chapter of life. Whether we’re dancing in the sunlight or weathering rain, I will choose you—again and again—with love, with loyalty, and with the kind of patience that grows only in the garden of true companionship.

There is a light in you that pulled me in from the darkness, and I have never looked back. I vow to protect that light when it flickers and to celebrate it when it shines. I will be your safe space when the world grows loud, and your loudest cheer when life calls for joy. Your heart is my home, and I promise to keep returning to it with gratitude, with tenderness, and with all that I am.

I’ve loved you in a thousand quiet ways—through every smile, every sigh, every silence. Today, I vow to love you even louder. I vow to stand by your side when the days are long and your strength runs thin. I will never take for granted the gift of being yours. And in all the years to come, when we are grey and time has softened us, I will still be looking at you the same way I do right now—with awe, with affection, and with forever in my eyes.

I promise to be your warmth in winter, your shade in summer, your laughter in spring, and your stillness in fall. Life may change its colors around us, but my heart will never change its direction. I will always be facing you—with my soul open, my hands steady, and my love unwavering. In every season, in every moment, I vow to be yours.

I choose you when it’s easy, and I choose you when it’s hard. I choose you when we are laughing so hard our sides hurt, and I choose you when the silence feels heavy. I vow to keep choosing you—even when life asks us tough questions—because you are the answer I never knew I was looking for. You are not just the love of my life—you are my life.

You’ve shown me the best parts of myself by loving me without condition. So today, I vow to believe in you as deeply as you’ve believed in me. I vow to see the magic in your dreams, the strength in your scars, and the depth of your soul. I will never stop seeing the wonder in who you are, and I will spend my days reminding you just how worthy you are of all the love in the world.

If I believed in past lives, I’d say I’ve loved you a hundred times before. And if I believe in anything at all, it’s that I will love you for every lifetime that follows this one. I vow to honor that ancient, soul-deep connection that brought us here. With each breath, I will love you not just as a partner, but as the mirror to my soul, and the keeper of my heart.

This vow may not be loud, but it is real. It is not dressed in grand declarations, but it is wrapped in truth. I vow to love you in the quiet moments—the coffee brewing at dawn, the peaceful silence of a car ride, the quiet turning of pages beside each other. It is in these spaces that my love will grow—steady, unshakable, and endlessly yours.

There will be days when we fall short, when words are few, when life is messy. On those days, I vow to keep showing up. I promise to show up with kindness, with compassion, and with the humility to learn and grow together. I will show up for your joy, your pain, your victories, and your healing. Always, I will be there, not perfectly—but entirely.

Of all the dreams I’ve held in my heart, none shine brighter than the one where I get to love you for the rest of my life. You are my once-in-a-lifetime, my never-letting-go, my soul’s echo. I vow to wake up each day knowing that being yours is the greatest gift I have ever been given—and I will never, ever take it for granted.

Short, Heartfelt Wedding Vows For Him

I promise to love you in all your seasons, and stand beside you in all your storms.

You are my best friend, my favorite person, and my forever. I choose you, always.

I vow to support you, laugh with you, and grow with you—every day of our lives.

I promise to love you more in every moment, even when we’re old and grey.

With my whole heart, I take you as my partner, now and for all the days to come.

I choose you not just today, but every day we wake up beside each other.

I vow to be your safe place, your teammate, and your biggest fan—always.

I promise to walk through life hand in hand, heart to heart, and never let go.

I will laugh with you, cry with you, and love you endlessly—just as you are.

You’re my once-in-a-lifetime, and I vow to spend mine loving you.

Funny Wedding Vows For Him

I vow to love you even when you hog the remote, even when you fall asleep five minutes into the movie you picked, and especially when you snore like a freight train. I promise to let you believe you’re in charge of the TV… while I secretly control the Netflix queue from my phone.

I vow to always support you—even when you insist you’re taking a “shortcut” that adds 25 extra minutes. I promise to nod knowingly when you explain how WiFi works and pretend to be impressed when you open jars like a superhero. You’re my favorite know-it-all.

I promise to share my fries even when I specifically said I didn’t want to share. I vow to give you the last slice of pizza, the first sip of coffee, and to only occasionally steal bites of your dessert when you’re not looking.

I vow to pretend I didn’t hear you say we’re going to IKEA on a Saturday. But I also vow to go with you anyway, carry all the boxes, and only complain once (okay, maybe twice). Love is patient. Love is assembling flat-packed furniture without arguing. Mostly.

I vow to laugh at your dad jokes, even the ones I’ve heard 437 times. I promise to be your audience, your hype crew, and your biggest fan—even when your punchlines are… questionable. Your laugh makes me laugh, and that’s enough.

I vow to only steal half the covers. Most nights. I promise to warm up your side of the bed when you’re cold, and to not make fun of your pajama choices—unless they’re really funny. Then I reserve the right to take a photo.

I vow to dance with you in the kitchen, at weddings, and in our living room—even when you’re more “enthusiastic flailer” than “rhythm king.” You’ll always be the Fred to my Ginger. Or at least the guy who tries.

I vow to never judge your five-hour bathroom sessions—or question what’s really going on in there. In return, I ask only that you remember to replace the toilet paper roll. This is my solemn, slightly desperate plea.

I vow to never say “I told you so” when we get lost after you ignore the GPS. I will instead quietly reroute us while you maintain that we “meant to take the scenic route.” Love is letting you have the illusion of direction.

I vow to embrace your weirdness, your quirks, and your endless supply of random facts. I vow to match your goofy with my goofy, and to love the hilarious, awkward, completely unique human that you are. Forever and ever, you’re my favorite weirdo—and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Wedding Vows Inspired By Books

I vow to love you like Mr. Darcy loved Elizabeth Bennet—with a fierce devotion that overcame pride, fear, and social expectation. I will honor you with honesty, protect you with loyalty, and always strive to be the man worthy of your heart, even when words fail me, as they often do when love runs this deep.

Like Aragorn to Arwen, I promise to be your strength when you are weary, your courage when the shadows come. I will choose you in every lifetime, across every distance, no matter what storms we face—because for me, there is no dawn without you.

As Jamie loved Claire in Outlander, I vow to love you beyond time and reason. Whether our days are simple or scattered across centuries in the pages of fate, I will stand by you with grit, humor, and a fire in my soul that only you can stir.

I vow to be your Samwise, your steadfast companion, your hopeful heart in dark places. Even when the weight feels heavy, I will walk beside you. I may not have all the answers, but I have this: I will never let you face the journey alone.

Like Lou loved Will in Me Before You, I vow to challenge you, uplift you, and make you see the beauty I see in you every day. I promise to push us both to live more fully, love more deeply, and never settle for anything less than extraordinary.

From the moment I read it in The Princess Bride, I knew: “As you wish” wasn’t just about obedience—it was about devotion. So I vow to love you the way Westley loved Buttercup—with quiet reverence, unwavering loyalty, and the kind of love that can overcome fire swamps and foolish pride.

I vow to love you like Gatsby loved Daisy—but with less tragedy and more truth. I’ll throw parties for your joy, build dreams big enough for two, and keep hoping in the green light of our future, knowing you are the reason I believe in magic again.

Like Rochester loved Jane Eyre, I vow to love you in your strength and vulnerability, to see you clearly even when the world does not. I promise to meet you with raw honesty, equal footing, and the knowledge that our souls were meant to find each other.

You are my safe place, like Ron was for Hermione in Harry Potter. I vow to be your home, your laughter in chaos, your loyalty when things fall apart. I promise to make you feel as cherished and protected as you’ve made me feel since the day we met.

As Noah loved Allie in The Notebook, I vow to love you with a quiet perseverance. I will write to you in words, in touch, in time. Even when memory fades and we are old and gray, I will sit beside you and remind you—this, all of this, was always real.

Wedding Vows Inspired By Songs

I vow to love you like Ed Sheeran sings in Thinking Out Loud—even when we’re 70, even when our hair is gone and our steps are slow. I promise to dance with you in the kitchen, hold your hand like it’s still our first date, and fall in love with you all over again, every single day.

Like Beyoncé said in Halo, I swear I found my light in you. You broke down every wall I built and made me feel safe to be seen, truly seen. I vow to protect your heart as fiercely as you’ve protected mine, and let your love be the light that leads me home.

From Make You Feel My Love by Adele, I vow that when the rain is blowing in your face and the whole world is on your case, I will offer you a warm embrace. I promise to stand with you in storms, to shelter you, and to be your unwavering calm.

As James Arthur sings in Say You Won’t Let Go, I vow to be with you until we’re grey and old. I promise to bring you coffee in bed, kiss you before you fall asleep, and never forget how lucky I am that you let me love you.

Like John Legend wrote in All of Me, I vow to love all of you—your curves, your edges, your perfect imperfections. I promise to give you my all, even on the days I feel like I have less to give, because your love gives me strength I never knew I had.

Inspired by At Last by Etta James, I vow to never stop celebrating the moment I found you. I will cherish you like the long-awaited dream you are, and remind you every day that my lonely days are over—because your love is the melody I was made for.

From Yellow by Coldplay, I vow to notice every little thing about you, the way you shine even on your worst days. I promise to run to you in the dark, to swim across oceans of worry, and to remind you always: you’re golden to me.

As in Can’t Help Falling in Love by Elvis Presley, I vow to fall in love with you slowly, deeply, endlessly. I promise to trust the flow of our love and follow where it leads, even when the road is uncertain—because being with you feels like destiny.

Like A Thousand Years by Christina Perri, I vow to wait for you in every lifetime. I promise to love you beyond fear, beyond time, and with the kind of devotion that doesn’t rush but stays, steady and infinite, like the beat of our hearts.

From Perfect by Ed Sheeran, I vow to remember the way you looked at me when we danced in the dark, barefoot on the grass. I promise to keep creating quiet, perfect moments with you—to be your harmony, your peace, and your forever song.