The Very Best 190 Questions to Ask Your Friends

The Very Best 190 Questions to Ask Your Friends

Whether you moved to a new place or are starting a new job and meeting new people, or may just want to deepen your current friendships a bit by getting to know your friends more, there are so many fun and insightful questions to ask to get to know others. Communication and understanding can be elemental in learning about one another to make true, long-lasting friendships.

In wanting to get to know your friends better or make new ones, here are some questions that you can ask to break that ice.


Best Questions to Ask Your Friends:

These are some well-rounded questions to ask to get to know your friends and their personalities a bit more.

Are you more of a cat person or dog person?

What is your favorite color and why?

Have you taken the MBTI? If so, what is your personality type?

Would you say you are more introverted or extroverted?

What makes you happy?

What type of person are you when you get angry?

What type of person are you when you get upset?

Do you have any pet peeves?

What makes you feel most relaxed?

What are some of your hobbies?

Describe your childhood?

Do you have a favorite childhood memory?

Do you have any siblings? 

How many siblings do you have?

Out of all your family members, who are you closest to?

Who knows your best and why?

Who is your role model?

When is your birthday?

How do you like to celebrate your birthday?

What is your star sign?

Do you know your love language

What is your biggest fear?

What are your goals in life?

Do you have a dream job?

Do you have a dream vacation?

Have you been out of the country?

Do you enjoy traveling?

Where is your favorite place to travel?

Are you more of a morning bird or night owl?

Do you prefer to be indoors or outdoors?

What do you do when you are most stressed?

What is your favorite cuisine?

Is there a food you dislike?

Do you prefer sweet or spicy?

Do you prefer breakfast, lunch, or dinner?

Would you rather cook or do take-out?

What is your favorite ice cream flavor?

Coffee or tea?

How do you like your coffee?

What type of music are you into?

Do you have a favorite holiday?

What do you do on the weekends?

What do you do for a living?

How do you organize your time?

What is your favorite season?


Juicy Questions to Ask Your Friends / Best Friend:

Naughty or nice, these are some questions that may bring out inner secrets and further break the ice…

When was the last time you kissed someone?

How many people have you kissed?

When was the last time you slept with someone?

How many people have you slept with?

Where was the most outrageous place you have slept with someone?

Have you ever cheated on someone?

Have you ever been cheated on?

Would you ever date two people at once if you could get away with it? 

If you had to kiss one of your friends, who would it be?

If you had to marry one of your friends, who would it be?

What qualities did you dislike about your ex?

What qualities do you look for in a partner?

What is the most embarrassing thing you have done on a date?

What’s the best date you’ve been on?

What’s the worst date you’ve been on?

What is an ideal date for you?

What’s the cringiest thing someone has said to you on a date?

Have you ever been offended by someone you went on a date with?

Have you ever offended someone you went on a date with?

Have you ever ghosted someone?

Have you ever been ghosted on?

Do you break up with someone or do you wait for the other person to break up with you?

Do you have any fantasies?

Do you have a celebrity crush?

Have you ever dreamt of a friend?

What’s the earliest age you had a crush on someone?

Are you more likely to pick truth or dare?

Have you ever sent a nude photo?

Have you ever received a nude photo?

What is a major dealbreaker for you?

What do you think is your most attractive feature?

Have you ever had a crush on a teacher?

Do you curse?

Did your parents ever give you “the talk”?

Do you watch porn?

Have you ever made a booty call?

What was the last thing you texted?

What if your best friend confessed they liked your crush?

What’s the first thing you would do if you woke up as the opposite gender?

Would you live with a partner before marriage?

Have you ever cheated on a test?

Do you find any of your friends’ significant others attractive?

Would you sleep with your best friend?

Would you sleep with any of your friends’ partners?

Who do you think is your most attractive friend?


Fun Questions to Ask Your Friends

Random light-hearted questions that may get some laughs and are sure to get the conversation party started!

If I were a fast-food chain, what do you think I would be and why?

Pizza or burgers?

How do you feel about pineapples on pizza?

What superpower would you have and why?

Would you rather have toes for fingers or fingers for toes?

Have you ever farted and blamed someone else?

Do you drool in your sleep?

Have you ever talked to yourself in the mirror?

Do you lean on your right or left leg?

What is your guilty pleasure?

What is your worst habit?

Do you ever pick your nose?

Have you ever walked in on someone in the bathroom?

What movie genre do you like the most?

Would you rather have bad breath or acne?

What animal do you relate the most to?

If your best friend and partner were drowning, who would you try to save if you could only save one person?

What is the most annoying quality of your best friend?

How many pizzas can you eat in one sitting?

What’s your type of humor?

What’s your opinion on clowns?

Would you rather be a pirate or a ninja?

What is the worst pickup line you have ever used on someone?

If you had to replace your best friend with a fictional character who would it be?

What is the strangest thing you have eaten?

Do you believe in ghosts?

Do you like karaoke?

Do you have a go-to song to sing?

If you were in Harry Potter, what Hogwarts House do you think you would belong in?

What makes you laugh the most?

Are you superstitious?

Do you believe in magic?

Do you have any hidden talents?

Do you like to dance or do you have two left feet?

What is your most-used emoji?

Is there a movie you can quote? If so, what is it?

If you were a grade school teacher, what would you teach?

If you could live in another decade, which one would you live in?

If there was a movie about your life, who would play as you?

What would you do if you won the lottery?

Would you rather have a chef or a maid?

Would you rather be hot or cold?

What’s the longest you have stayed up for?

Are you more into tattoos or piercings?

If we were on a game show together, what show would we be on?


Deep Questions to Ask Your Friends

Break these questions out when you really start to get comfortable and want to dig deep in getting to know your friends.

Describe the happiest moment of your life thus far.

What is something you are genuinely passionate about?

What do you want to be remembered for?

What are your life goals?

Is there anything you want to leave a legacy for?

Is there anything or anyone who inspires you?

Name three of your strengths.

Name three of your weaknesses.

Do you think there are meanings to dreams we have while we sleep?

What is on your bucket list?

Do you have any regrets?

If you could relive one moment of your life, what would it be?

If you have an infinite amount of money, what would you do with it?

Do you think money can buy happiness?

Is there anything you could change about the past?

If all of your five senses were taken away and you could keep one, what would you choose?

Have you ever betrayed someone?

Do you believe in life after death?

What do you “waste” time on?

Have you ever struggled with an addiction?

What accomplishment are you most proud of?

What would be your theme song and why?

Is there anything you would like to change about yourself?

What question do people ask you the most?

Who knows you best?

Have you ever failed at something?

How do you bounce back from failure?

What do you believe would make the world a better place?

Are you religious or spiritual?

Are you confrontational?

What does it take for you to apologize?

What do you do when you are alone?

What do you think your life would be like in the next 5 years?

What makes you feel most vulnerable?

If you could change your name what would you change it to?

If I were a color, what color would you think I would be and why?

Do you consider yourself the main character or a side character and why?

What is your moral alignment?

What is your Enneagram?

Do you live in the present or tend to look at the past or future?

Would you relocate for love?

If you were famous, what would you like to be known for?

Would you ever sacrifice your life for someone else?

If you could bring a deceased person back to life for a day, who would it be?

What is your definition of happiness?

Marci Seg
Marci Seg