The Very Best 181 Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy

The Very Best 181 Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy

Flirt is one of the most important things in our life. Just imagine a world where people do not flirt, it sucks. Flirt is a game for two, it’s not difficult yet it needs the right way. Picture this, you are in a bar and you just saw a handsome man. He is coming to your table – you freeze. You don’t know what to say or what to do. This is just normal, but I got your back.

I have more than 181 flirty questions to ask a guy just for you, in order to avoid being in the cold ever again, just looking and giggling at the other guy. I promise you; they will work for multiple occasions.

No matter if it’s a new guy, a first date, or a fresh relationship, these flirty questions will make you irresistible. I will give you a little piece of advice; flirt is not necessary only for a first meeting but it’s vital for a healthy relationship too.


… to break the ice at the first time meeting.

40 Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy

Do you work out?

What were you like in school?

What is the first thing that you notice to me when you first saw me?

Which is your goal in your life?

What goal have you accomplish in your life already?

What’s your favorite time of the year?

What do you notice first on a woman?

Do you consider yourself as a romantic?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Do you like my outfit?

Are you enjoying your drink?

Are you enjoying meeting new people in a bar? (the place you met him)

How someone like you is single?

What’s your biggest turn on?

What’s your idea of a perfect date?

What’s your best feature?

What’s your worst habit?

What’s your biggest turn on?

Do you like it when girls make the first move?

How could you describe yourself in 3 words?

What’s the most romantic thing you have done?

Where’s the favorite place to be kissed?

What movie has ever made an impact for you?

Are you introvert of extrovert?

How do you know if someone is amazing?

What’s the perfect way to ask someone out?

If we went on a date, how would it go?

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Do you let your friend’s opinions get in the way of your relationships?

Are you aware of how amazing you are?

Do your weekends plans include me?

Do you find yourself more drawn to brain or looks?

Do you like grand gestures?

What’s the most outrageous thing you’ve done?

What gift will make you fall in love with someone instantly?

Do you have any passions?

What brings meaning to your life?

When’s the last time you felt butterflies?

Is there anything about me that initially drew your attention?

Are you planning anything exciting for the next 24 hours?

What superpower would you choose if you could have one?

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40 Fun and Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy.

Did you do anything interesting today, besides talking to me?

When the last time you laughed so much you cried?

Would you ever do a nudie run? If yes, I will join

Would you ever visit a nude beach?

Are you a fan of public displays of affection?

If I was a flower, what kind of flower would I be?

Have you ever been so drunk to pee your plants?

What would surprise me about your phone’s pics if I looked at them now?

Would you be socked if saw the search history of your web browser?

When you tell your friends you have been arrested, what will they think the reason is?

How would you spend the day with me if we were invisible?

What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?

Is there a fictional character who reminds you the most of me?

How about a life drawing class where you pose naked?

Is it possible to eat a hot dog in one just bite?

Have you ever hit on by a woman?

When was the last time you dreamed about someone s*xually?

If the price was right, would you become a sugar daddy?

Which name you would choose if you could change it?

Do you think I’d make an appropriate partner during a zombie apocalypse?

If a genie were to grant you one wish, what would you wish for?

How do you plan on getting me drunk?

What would you do if tonight is the last night of your life?

Would you vacation on Mars?

What was one of the biggest ‘’oh f@ck” moments of your life?

Have you ever been late on a date?

Have you been ever on a tinder date?

What’s your most disappointed date? And why?

If I told you that I am a vampire what would you say?

If we could be a couple on TV, which couple you choose?

What meme best represents your life?

If you could be an animal for the rest of your life, which one do you choose to be?

What are your favorite pet names?

Between money and love, you would go for?

Do you have a celebrity crush?

Where is the craziest place you have ever meet someone?

What is the most humiliating thing that has happened to you?

If suddenly start singing “Macarena” what could you do?

What is your worst getting trolled story?

If you had a sign on your forehead, what would it say?

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Do you think you are a reliable person? What is the most reliable thing you have done?

Would you cook for a girl?

What is the kindest thing you have ever done?

What is the cutest thing you have ever done?

What is your love language?

What does love mean to you?

How do you know when you catch feelings for someone?

If we could be in a trip right know? In which place would we be?

What song would you compare our relationship to?

What was your favorite part of the day?

Where do you feel safest? Is there a person you feel most comfortable with?

What was your first impression of me?

What’s your favorite memory that we shared?

If we had to spend the day together in one place, where would we go?

What’s your funniest childhood memory?

Name three things that never fail to make you smile.

Do you prefer kissing or hugging?

What’s the biggest deal-breaker in a relationship?

What’s your favorite moment in our relationship?

Are you a surprise person or not?

What gift would make you fall in love with someone instantly?

Where is your happy place?

Have you ever had a dream about me?

Do you feel comfortable sleeping beside someone? (me)

Do you think you know what women want?

Do you believe relationships can survive long distances?

How did you know that you want me as your partner?

Is there one thing or secret that you would surprise me about you?

Do you believe in destiny?

Do you see me in your future? (be careful with this one)

What do you like the most of my personality?

What’s the best relationship advice you’ve received?

What kind of memories do you want to make together?

What are your thoughts about true love?

Do you believe in soul mates?

If you have to move in a new country for me, would you?

What is the first thing that come to mind in the morning when you wake up next to me?

Do you miss me when we’re not together?

Is there anything about me that inspires you to do things differently?

Do you think that there is a special reason why we met?

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40 Sexy and Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy (Juicy).

What is your favorite place to be massaged?

Is there any s*xy movie you want to watch together?

Have you ever had a one-night stand?

What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever done it?

Do you have any fetishes?

What are you best at in bed?

Are you kinky or vanilla?

Have you ever done it outside?

What’s the best bedroom experience that you have ever had?

Have you any s*xy fantasy with me?

What do you think about dirty talking?

If I were in your room right now, what would you want to do to me?

What is your favorite s*x position?

When do you feel the most passionate?

What is your thought on foreplay?

What would you do if you could do anything with me?

Do you like s*x toys? If yes which is your favorite one?

Are you a top or bottom?

Have you ever had a s*x dream with me?

B00b or butt guy?

Have you ever tried role play?

Would you try role play with me?

What’s the difference to you between s*x and making love?

Have you ever tried edible underwear?

Do you like s*xting?

Do you prefer to give or receive?

Have you ever wanted to tear my clothes off?

Do you want to know what I’m wearing?

Do you like playing rough?

What body part do you like me to touch the most?

Do you want to try 50 shades of grey with me?

When did you first have s*x?

Have you ever been caught having s*x?

Are you loud or quiet during s*x?

Do you want to make a s*x tape with me?

What’s the first thing that s*xually attracts you to me?

When it comes to B-D-S-M, how far have you gone?

Do you enjoy shower s*x?

Do you want to come to my house after? (if you are out)

How would you make me have an orgasm?

At this point, I found for you 36 questions that can scientifically help you fall in love with anyone. Psychologist Arthur Aron’s study “To Fall in Love with Anyone, do this”, suggests these 36 questions that can lead to love.

I tried them too, they really worked.

The 36 questions in the study are broken up into three sets.


The 36 Flirty Questions that Lead to Love.

Set 1.

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what are you going you going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a perfect day for you?

5. When did you last sing yourself? To someone else?

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7. Do have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your story life in as much details as possible?

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability what would it be


Set 2.

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

14. Is there something that you have dreamed of doing for a long time? Why you have not done it?

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16. What do you value most in a friendship?

17. What is your most treasured memory?

18. What is your most terrible memory?

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What roles do love, and affection play in your life?

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share total five.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?


Set 3.

25. Make three true “we” statements each.

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share things that you might not say to someone you have just met

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you regret not having told someone? Why have not you told them yes? (My partner in this question, told me “I love you” for the first time)

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.


I promise you that all the above flirty questions to ask a guy will work perfectly in the proper timing!

Zoi Tsadari
Zoi Tsadari