Libra Man: The Social Lover

Want to understand the inner workings of a Libra man? Want to play it cool but in a strategic manner? This is where Astrology comes in handy! Learn more about what makes Libra men tick, and save yourself the headache of trying to figure them out

First, let’s go over the basics of the zodiac sign Libra.

Libras are born between September 23rd and October 22nd. The Libra zodiac glyph is the scales, which isn’t a surprise considering their rather balanced demeanor. Libra’s are all about keeping things fair, which makes the scales the perfect representation of their energy.

Further, Libra is the seventh sign of the zodiac and is the first sign to shift its focus on to the other. The order of the sign is important to note because it coincides with the development of the signs. Libra represents partnership, contracts, and relating to others. This energy is a very important part of understanding the sign of Libra, and it marks a stark contrast from the energy of other zodiac signs.

Libra is a cardinal air sign, which influences them to be initiators and avid social beings. This mix between a cardinal modality and air element makes Libra be especially concerned with forming new social connections and relationships. Libras are easy to get along with due to their indifferent energy, allowing them to avoid causing much friction. Their ruling planet, Venus, makes Libras especially concerned with keeping the harmony and pleasure in life at full blast.

Now that we understand the basics, let’s move onto more about Libra!

Libra Men Traits

Harmonious, social, flirty, easy going, passive, avoidant, flakey, loving, fashionable, socially conscious, likeable, indecisive, drifty, idealistic, appreciative, superficial, understanding, empathetic, fair, peaceful, indulgent, people pleasers, positive, stylish.

Understanding Libra Men: Personality, Tendencies & Trust Patterns

Libra men are the social butterflies of the zodiac. They love to be around people and feel most at peace when in group settings. These men are the ultimate diplomists. They are natural at keeping things peaceful, and want to maintain a good impression with those they meet. Libra men are quite intelligent, although they can appear airy and spacey at times. This is because they don’t take themselves very seriously like other signs. They prefer to come off as unthreatening and unassuming. This Libra quality works in their favour, as it makes people feel as if Libra is always on their team.

Further, Libra men have a balanced and fair energy to them. They exude this aura because equilibrium is the most important thing for them. A Libra man’s worst nightmare is to seem tyrannical or extreme. Being very socially conscious, these men strive to find the perfect balance between polarities. Not too much of one thing or another. This is partially why they love to dabble in different groups. Staying in one place too long, not only gets boring, but can also distort their balanced perspective. However, Libra men love to play the meditator. They will be the first to assume this role when tension rises. They also love to be a part of debate, as long as they’re not in the hot seat!

Ruled by Venus, Libra men have a natural eye for symmetry and all things beauty. This is why most of them have exceptional style and taste! Venus gives them a sophistication to their aura. The influence from Venus also makes these men extremely charming and easy to like. Venus naturally wants all to flow smoothly and be enjoyable. Venus being the planet of love, influences Libra men tend to embody the ‘unconditional love’ vibe. They can find a good quality in the worst people! This can sometimes make them vulnerable to manipulative people that know how to play nice. However, as contradictory as it sounds, Libra men have the same ability!

Further, the Venus influence makes Libra men very partner oriented. Whether it be with their friends, family, or romantic partners, Libra men need to have someone to lean on. They begin to feel unsettled when they spend too much time alone and when not in groups, prefer to have a sidekick. Ironically, they typically end up assuming the role of sidekick, as Libra men prefer to have their counterpart lead the way. Something very important to Libra men is to feel adored and cared for. They are the types to sacrifice it all for the ones they love, but require adoration in return. However, since Libra men are influenced by energies that are quite flighty, some can have a hard time with commitment.

Finally, Libra men trust others pretty easily. They are quite easy to win over with friendly conversation and a genuine approach. With Libra men, the issue is that they trust people too freely because really getting to know them. These men tend to see the best in people and can be the type to wear rose tinted glasses. This quality can cause them trouble but also bring about frustration by those that care for them. It’s as if everyone but the Libra can see the negative qualities of a person. Since they have an easy time putting themselves in other people’s shoes, they tend to give other people the benefit of the doubt. However, something to note is that Libra men trusting others doesn’t mean much to them. They see it as a natural and ‘no biggie’ type of thing. For this reason, it can make loved ones feel unimportant and like they’re just another body.

Libra Men When They Fall for Someone: Sex, Dating, & Love

When Libra men fall in love, they will want to take you anywhere and everywhere with them! They will want you to become a part of their circles and show you off. They will also want to become a part of yours! These men are the verbally affectionate type, so they won’t hold back from complimenting you. Especially once they’re in love. Libra men can have a difficult time settling down because of their flighty energy, but once they’re in love, they are extremely devoted. Libra men become attached to their partners and can have a difficult time leaving. They are the type to stick around even when things are evidently crumbing. When in love, they merge into one with their partners and become dependent on their connection.

Libra men love appreciating beautiful things. They are the type to tell you how beautiful you are without being shy. They are natural charmers that know how to make others fall in love with them. If a Libra man is in love with you, you can guarantee that the charm factor will be turned up. Libra men are the type to want to adorn their partners with beautiful jewelry and the finest handbags. When a Libra man loves you, he wants you to sparkle the brightest. They tend to show their love through items that they find exceptional, because they see it as a reflection of their partner.

Moreover, when Libra men fall in love, they have eyes for their partner only. When Libra men aren’t totally head over heels, they have the tendency of having a wandering eye. They can get caught up in the ‘what if’ and let their mind wander. However, when a Libra man is truly in love, they won’t see anyone the way they see you. They will see your good qualities and glorify them to the heavens. The biggest sign is the level of persistence and steadiness with Libra men. Remember, these men aren’t the type to stick to things too easily. If you see a strong effort to keep things continual, it’s likely because he is head over heels for you!

Dating a Libra man will make you feel extravagant and elegant. These men love to be chivalrous! Libra men really appreciate the courting stage of relationships, and usually thrive during the dating stage. They love the flirty, lighthearted energy that comes with getting to know someone. You can bet that they will ask you intellectual questions and will want to share their fair perspectives with you. Libra men want to make sure that there is a fun, but intellectual connection with the people they date. They are an air sign after all! Libra men are the type to show up with their horse and carriage and talk to you all night as you journey around the city. They love exciting, pleasurable, and romantic dates.

Finally, Libra men love light and flirty sex! They like to keep things playful during casual encounters, but when they fall in love, they tend to be more passionate. These men love emotionally connecting with their partners during sex, and will make sure it’s a romantic experience. Expect rose petals and champagne to set the mood! Libra men are very partner oriented, so you can expect them to be very attentive to your wants and needs. These are the type of lovers that will please you without expecting any in return.

Turning a Libra Man On & Off

Libra men are quite easy going, but since they’re ruled by Venus, they can be quite superficial. These are some of the biggest turn ons and offs for Libra men to watch out for!

Turn Ons:

  • Socially adept lovers.
  • Being open-minded and adventurous.
  • Fashionable aesthetic.
  • Passionate people.
  • Witty conversations.
  • Being compassionate towards others.
  • Patient lovers.
  • Decisive people.
  • Strong leaders.

Turn Offs:

  • Neediness.
  • Jealousy and suspicion.
  • Boring during conversation.
  • Socially awkward.
  • Selfishness.
  • Lack of awareness.
  • Wanting commitment too soon.
  • Poor manners.
  • Trashy behavior.

Most & Least Compatible Matches for Libra Men

Compatibility in Astrology goes beyond just Sun signs! This is important to note because you may be compatible with a Libra man, but your Sun signs may be traditionally incompatible. It can also work the other way around, where your sun signs may be traditionally compatible but you don’t feel it. This list is based on the energies that typically mesh best with Libra men!

Most Compatible:

  • Gemini.
  • Aquarius.
  • Sagittarius.
  • Pisces.

Least Compatible:

  • Cancer.
  • Virgo.
  • Scorpio.
  • Leo.

What scares a libra man?

The biggest thing that scares a Libra man is true love before he feels ready to commit! This is especially scary for Libra men because deep down they long true love. However, when Libra men haven’t matured, they see this as a threat to their freedom. Libra men also get scared by people that are too clingy and serious. They like to keep things light and flirty without much expectation. If they start to feel high expectations and controlling energy they tend to disappear!

How to make a libra man obsessed with you?

The best way to make a Libra man obsessed is by being light hearted, making yourself look very aesthetically pleasing, and by being well liked by others. Libra men love partners that don’t take life too seriously. They look at social acceptance as a check mark that you are a catch. These men also love passionate people that care about a cause. They are suckers for people that want to make the world a better place! Since Venus rules over Libra, wearing flowery scents, flower print, or a lot of pink will catch their attention.

How to know if a libra man is playing you?

You will know a Libra man is playing you when he wants to keep things very superficial. He won’t care about your opinions and he won’t come around your friends. He will stay as far as possible from anything that could indicate greater commitment. He likely won’t take you out on formal dates and won’t be as chivalrous as usual. He will still be charming and will know how to play like he cares, but his actions will prove otherwise. When a Libra man doesn’t care, he will choose a night out with friends over spending quality time with you.

Top 5 Gifts for a Libra Man

Floral Print Dress Shirt: Ruled by the planet of beauty, Libra men love floral print and anything fashion-related. Gift him a new addition to his stylish collection of clothes!

Surprise Get-Away Party: Libra men love to enjoy luxury in socially dynamic settings. If you can manage to plan a surprise party at a resort or cabin with friends and family, he will be the happiest man alive!

Art: Libra men have a gifted eye for beautiful things. This makes them especially appreciative of things like art! Get him a balanced and aesthetic art piece to decorate his home with.

Dinner and Live Music: Libra men love to indulge and have a great time. A high quality dinner over live music will get him in the mood to celebrate. Don’t forget dessert!

Rose Quartz Bracelet: Since Libra men are ruled by the planet Venus, a crystal bracelet is a great choice! Venus represents precious gemstones and rules over the crystal rose quartz. This piece of jewlery will connect him with his true self.

Check Your Compatibility:

Libra and Aries Compatibility

Libra and Taurus Compatibility

Libra and Gemini Compatibility

Libra and Cancer Compatibility

Libra and Leo Compatibility

Libra and Virgo Compatibility

Libra and Libra Compatibility

Libra and Scorpio Compatibility

Libra and Sagittarius Compatibility

Libra and Capricorn Compatibility

Libra and Aquarius Compatibility

Libra and Pisces Compatibility

More in Zodiac Man:

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Sagittarius Man // Capricorn Man // Aquarius Man // Pisces Man

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